If you've been around here long enough you'll know that I ended my relationship with my ex over three years ago now and whilst it's most definitely one of the best decisions I made not only for myself but the boys, it doesn't come without the warning that coparenting is no walk in the park. I am three years deep and this last year has probably been the toughest, but it does mean I've learnt a lot of really valuable lessons along the way that hopefully others going through similar, will find useful. I know over the years people passed on pieces of advice to me, some I took, some I didn't and wish I did, a lot of the time it is about finding your own path naturally - but having another mothers experience can often give people a little insight by sharing my top four tips.